Why do some people bully and why are some young people bullied?

 
On the other input you can see what’s bullying and forms to cause bullying to another person, but why the people do this, why do some people bully????  

There are a lot of reasons why some people bully; they may see it is a way of being popular, or making themselves look tough and in charge. In other case the person who cause the bullying, causing because to get attention or things, or to make afraid to them. In some cases the bullies might be jealous of the person they are bullying. They may be being bullied themselves. Some bullies may not even understand how wrong their behavior is and how it makes the person being bullied feel.

The most cases are present in young, as it causes and as received, this is because some young people are bullied for no particular reason, but sometimes it´s because they are different in some way-perhaps it's the color of their skin, the way they talk, their size or their name and other stupid reason to cause a big in the person who received the bullying same thing happened to Tyler Cement’s a young who suicide for the bullying who it received per the people of his school  because he was gay. Sometimes young people are bullied because they look like they don’t show interest for them appearances.

In the worst cases the bullying to damage so great that it has caused the person which are attacked death by the many critics that they are given as we can seen in the case of Jonah Mowry which murder-suicide attacks to receive for being gay.

 In the following video we can see the latest attempt to fight against this young bullying before committing suicide:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpMc4ta6XAw

That is so sad; but is really please don’t do that in your community the bullying is the worst thing for young people.

PD: Please look all the video to understand the damage to the bullying. 


By: Javier Arevalo 

More Consequense Of Bullying

The bullying also have impact on the society, for example many people start to feel stress, didn’t want to do anything, present sleeping  problems or nightmares, also the children may suddenly stop wanting to mix with friends or play after the school, they are lonely people, with usually bad character and they don’t believe in themselves.

Many child’ start from the drugs and alcohol addictive, also vandalism for the parents, “Friends”, family, etc.

The bullying can cause on the children to experience fear, depression, low self, physical illness, and a some case the person suicide.In some different cases, the bullying start in home, produced by the parents or by the own family.


Also on the children produces scared of not being popular with class members or being, viewed as the "tough guy"
In my opinion this situation should not pass, because all the people on the earth, childrens, adults etc, and all have dreams, and many people try to destroy it. Many of us, can stop this, do campaigning about this, avoids the comments, about your friends tha hurt their feelings.
If you feel pressure tell your situation from your parents, they help you, tried to maintain your relationship with your friends, because your friends also can help you in dfficult times.

Juan Camilo Benjumea

MORE CAUSES OF BULLYING

Some other causes that can take a person to being bullied are:

Bullying starts at home: Most of the people that has problems at home, usually suffer bullying in their school or with its neighbors. This usually is because these persons have a bad relation with their parents, siblings, etc…

This is also common when the parents are very lax and they allow their children’s to do whatever they want or when the children’s do not receive a disciplinary attitude from their parents. So when these kids arrive to school they are not prepared to let anyone to punish at them, because this never happens at their home and they are usually aggressive and rebels when somebody tries to control them or give the orders.

The personality is also very important in this cases:  There are other persons that suffer bullying that are totally different from the last example, and there are those children’s which character or personality is shy, passive, and those persons that don’t interest at nothing, and they present lacks of interest against school, family, friends or how the people treat at them. So it’s our responsibility to report or alert someone when you see a person with these personalities because they can be victims of bullying in the future and if you help them, you are helping the community to become better every single day.

Some of the most popular cases are some of the people that try to intimidate or  to discriminate the others because they don’t want to be discriminate by the rest.  So they just make others feel rejected, sad and less important than the rest of the group and this gives them some respect and bad reputation in the school, with their neighbors or in some extreme cases in their own homes. 
BY: LAURA MARIA OTERO LOPEZ

What Produces Bullying?

the bullyin produces many thinks in the person, for example, the the person star to feel alone, also research shows that in fact, bullying can produces, a negative academic, physical, social, emotional psychological.
On the school many people cant work on a good way, they cant ask to the teacher many questions, because ther are scare that people laugh of him.
Also the bullying produces that the person didn't have confidense from another people, him parents, family etc.

Juan Camilo Benjumea

What's Bullying?

Bullying is when someone keeps doing or saying things to have power over another person.

Some of the ways they bully other people are by:

·        Saying or writing nasty things about them

·        Calling them names

·        Leaving  them out of activities

·        Not talking to them

·        Threatening them

·        Making them feel uncomfortable or scared

·        Taking or damaging their things

·        Hitting or kicking them

·        Making them do things they don't want to do.

Have any of these things happened to you? Have you done any of these things to someone else? Really, bullying is wrong behavior which makes the person being bullied feel afraid or uncomfortable.

Please don't do this in your school, is so bad for you and your community.


By: Javier Arevalo

Types of bullying

TYPES OF BULLYING

PHYSICAL BULLYING: when some person hurt physically, when someone attack other, hitting, kicking, punching, some one. And makes an injury in the other person, The same victim is targeted repeatedly and makes serious problems in the body of the victim.

VERBAL BULLYING: is make a offensive remarks or to joke with some person religion, genre or the way he or she look, this class of bullying affects it physiologically, and the person feels low and makes feel bad and insecure of himself.in one word is to make feel bad other persons with offensives and affects equal that the physical bullying.  It can also include a bully making verbal threats of violence or aggression against someone's personal property.

INDIRECT BULLYING: is a story or rumors about some person, telling others something that is not true and makes the persons exclude the boy of the story or rumor that was created, this type of bullying happen because some persons makes a joke to others to makes the person be excluded and feel bad.

SOCIAL ALIENATION: is when someone is excluded from a group or purpose, it has also rumors and making fun with other person and joke with him, by pointing out their differences.

INTIMIDATION: is when someone makes other feel lower and weak, much of cases is makes the frightens makes the victim to do what they want to do. And have control of the victim making do things that he or she didn’t wanted to do, and makes feel bad and discriminated.

HOSTED BY: David Rios

There are many different causes that can take people to start bullying against other people, the most usual reason is that a person thinks different or looks different from the rest, so the group start to discriminate the person that is "different" from the others. This is usually more frequent in kids that have problems to socialize with others, or kids that dont have good grades. Also happens when a kid (or adult) has problems in their house so this make them to be stressed all the time and to have a bad realtion with the others.
The bullying is usually against to someone that has less posibilities of defend itself from the abusers.
In the girls, for example is usually against someone that has less beauty or less popular than the others. Its very common in the famous "nerds" because they are smarter than the rest.
By: .Laura Maria Otero Lopez